Guys Here Are Signs Your Girl Is Cheating On You!!!

The truth is, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Though you might be in love with your better half, there’s always a chance that she might be cheating on you.

Against what your macho mind might feel, you may not be the center of her universe after all. Stay calm, here is a top list of signs she’s cheating on you. While all the cheating signs that follow may not imply that she is in fact cheating on you, each is definitely a warning that something is amiss with your ladylove.

Depending on the scenario, you may need to look further for more signs she’s cheating on you.

1. She detaches herself from your family The fact that she no longer wants to attend your family’s functions or hang with your friends is one of our signs she’s cheating on you. This sign may be indicative of cheater’s remorse on her part, which means that she likely feels guilty about cheating.
The less she immerses herself in your circles (which contain people who are painful reminders of her sins), the less mental anguish she’ll have to endure.

2. She nags you incessantly Gone are the days when the two of you could communicate with harmonious precision. Now, every sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at you. If such an about-face sounds familiar, she may be subconsciously trying to justify her little tryst. Nagging you helps eliminate or at least ease her nagging guilt.
So if she habitually begins to point out your every flaw, you may want to get to the bottom of what’s really going on because it’s one of the signs she’s cheating on you.

3. She has a mysterious friend A telltale sign that your woman is cheating arises when a mysterious friend inches his way into the picture. Whether it’s someone she claims is a coworker or an old friend from way back, she keeps this friendship under wraps and is hesitant to share any general details about him, much less introduce you. And it doesn’t take a Ph.D. to figure out why.

4. She deflects simple questions You should be suspicious of your girlfriend when she refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions or answers questions only after repeating them back to you, which usually indicates a mind that’s searching for a lie.
Be wary of times when, rather than reveal that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks, “Why do you want to know what time I left the coffee shop?” If she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation, she may be hiding something or someone and it’s one of the surest signs she’s cheating on you.

5. She shifts priorities away from you If she is involved in a hot and heavy romance with someone else, you’ll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities. Suddenly, there are no more implied Sunday dates at the movies or something always comes up on dance-lesson Thursday.
There is a tendency for most philanderers to schedule meetings with their new flame as often as they can, which results in a complete disregard for previous engagements.

6. She puts more effort into looking sexy You may like her just the way she is, but that won’t stop her from trying to dazzle her new fling. Just as you tried to impress each other at the beginning of your relationship, she’ll try to impress her new flame with a sudden urge to improve her style, change her makeup and alter her physical appearance for the new man in her life.
 So, while her desire to look sexier is one thing, not caring about your opinion on the matter is quite another.

7. She becomes autonomous One of the biggest signs she’s cheating on you is her breaking away from your little two-person unit to become more autonomous. She has dropped ” we” from her vocabulary in favor of “I.” Moreover, she does more things on her own and stops consulting you about future plans. In short, she conducts herself in ways that hint that she no longer needs you to hold her hand.
Whether she’s hoping you’ll leave her or she’s simply looking for more time to lead her “double life,” it’s safe to conclude that she wants you out of the picture — she just can’t build up the nerve to leave you.

8. She is secretive about her schedule She may claim to no longer have time for any extracurricular activities with you, yet she has one foot out the door the minute one of her girlfriends calls. Either that or she has been “going away on business” one too many times.
And when she does leave, her whereabouts are sketchy at best and you are somehow always the last to know. Disclosing her itinerary to you at the last minute and overlooking your plans in the process can mean many things, one of which isn’t that she’s forgetting, but rather leaving you out.

9. You become irrelevant What could be worse than a girlfriend who nags you about absolutely everything? How about one who stops noticing that you’re even alive? All at once, she doesn’t care if you don’t want to go to the saloon with her; she’ll just find somebody else with whom to go.
And whatever opinion you may have, be it about how she looks or how you’re feeling, is met with a tepid response. In other words, she doesn’t place the same importance on what you think and what you do as she once did, especially on things that directly affect the relationship.

-RelationshipTips

GTBank Commences Instant Account Opening on Facebook

(GTB) Guaranty Trust Bank Plc has said it upgraded its social banking offering on Facebook to accommodate instant account opening. With this upgrade, a statement from the bank at the weekend said its prospective customers would be able to open accounts and immediately get their account numbers while on Facebook, without having to visit any GTBank branch.

Commenting on the new offering which went live recently, the Managing Director  GTBank, Mr. Segun Agbaje, said the upgrade would make it more convenient for people to commence banking relationships with the bank. Agbaje explained all potential customers had to do while on Facebook was fill the account opening form, upload their passport photograph and signature mandate and immediately get their account number.

Agbaje explained: “GTBank social banking is a unique offering pioneered by the bank earlier in the year that allows people open GTBank accounts, make account balance enquiries, perform money transfers and purchase Airtime on Facebook. The bank remains the leading Nigerian financial services provider in the social media space with over 1.3 million followers on Facebook alone, the largest following for any Nigerian company. “With Social Banking, GTBank has successfully introduced a new and effective platform through which its customers can get real-time customer service and perform transactions quickly, safely and at their convenience.”

According to the GTBank boss, the banking requirements of today’s customers necessitated a high degree of flexibility, which was why the bank instituted the value adding channels on social and other platforms  that allows people bank 24 hours, every day. GTBank was established in 1990 and has within the last 23 years come to be recognised as one of the most innovative and service focused banks in Nigeria.

UNIOSUN workers threaten to down tools •Give management 7-day ultimatum

THE Joint Action Congress (JAC) of Senior Staffs Association of Nigeria University (SSANU), Non-Academic Staff Union (NASU) and National Association of Academic Technologists (NAAT) of Osun State University (UNIOSUN), on Tuesday, gave its management a final ultimatum of 7-working days to comply with its demands or face industrial crisis in all the six campuses of the institution.

The three unions of the institution which called for urgent implementation of their allowances, welfare packages among other entitlements had given their management led by the vice-chancellor, Professor Bashiru Okesina a-21 working day ultimatum which expired yesterday.
Addressing the workers at a congress held at the Main Lecture Theatre (MLT) of the university, Osogbo Campus, the NASU Chairman, Isaiah Fayemi disclosed that the management refused to call JAC for dialogue until the 15th day of the expired ultimatum stressing that the management were indifferent to the implementation of their demands.

Meanwhile, the registrar of the institution, Dr Olusakin Faniran and the bursar, Alhaji Bayo Lasisi who were at the congress as members of SSANU jointly appealed to the workers to give the management more time in order to meet with the state governor, Mr. Rauf Aregbesola who is presently out of the country so as to resolve the issues.

The communiqué issued at the end of the congress and signed by the three chairmen of SSANU, Kadiri Adiat, NASU, Isaiah Fayemi and NAAT, Adeleke Ismaheel, reads in part: “further to the resolutions of JAC which expires on Tuesday 6th August, 2013 and failure of management of UNIOSUN to meet the demanads of JAC, the JAC of NASU, SSANU and NAAT hereby give a final ultimatum of 7 days effective from Monday, August 12, 2013 to the management to comply with its demands as entrenched in the resolutions of congress held on July, 9, 2013.”

The workers are demanding for the implementation of the hazard allowance, arrears, overtime allowance and stoppage of special allowances for some selected staff. They also the state government to return the university autonomy in order to allow the management work effectively.
“The management should review the anomalies in the recent vacancies advertisement published in the Punch Newspaper of Thursday, 27th June, 2013. The advertisement should be reversed to accommodate members of staff with higher qualifications, temporary and GAP (Graduate Assistant Programme) that have been serving the system for sometimes now”.

“The management should pay without further delay the 1% pioneer allowance arrears, pay staff salary promptly and also implement the welfare package for staff which includes car refurbish, furniture and housing loan as obtained in other universities and government parastatals”, the communiqué reads.

culled from:tribune

OAU Rated Nigeria’s Best University, Africa’s Eighth Best

Obafemi Awolowo University, (OAU) Ile-Ife, Osun State has again been rated the first and the best university in Nigeria and eighth in Africa in the new webometric ranking released Monday by the Cybermetrics Lab of Spain.
In a statement by the Public Relations Officer (PRO) of the university, Mr. Abiodun Olarewaju, the world-renowned research council improved OAU’s rating from number 14 to eight position in Africa in the ranking circulated round the world.
According to the statement, “this is a development that academic analysts and managements of universities in Africa have hailed as a monumental leap for educational advancement in Nigeria.

“Also in the history, this is the first time that a Nigerian university would be so ranked consecutively.
“The university was, early this year, rated by the Cybermetrics Lab of Spain as the first and the best university in Nigeria and 14th in Africa before the new webometric ranking that was released today (Monday).”

 

In his reaction, Vice-Chancellor of the university, Professor Bamitale Omole, attributed the giant strides recorded by his administration to the unparalleled research output, administrative acumen, technical know-how of the academic, administrative and technical staff of the university.

He added that only a focused leadership, which was the hallmark of his management team, could produce such a spectacular feat.
Omole also applauded the dedication to duty of all stakeholders in making sure that the ideals of the founding fathers of the institution become a reality.

He therefore urged the federal government not to rest on its oars in improving the funding of education, particularly for the universities, so that the increased penchant for travelling abroad to undergo academic programmes that could be taught better by our lecturers here in Nigeria would be a thing of the past.

Pictures of Peter Okoye of P-Square Proposing To Girlfriend With Range Rover And Diamond Ring

P-Square’s Peter Okoye has finally put a ring on it. He proposed to the mother of his two children, Lola Omotayo today with a brand new Range Rover and a diamond ring. Well your guess is as good as mine... Lola said yes! The two have been dating for over seven years and have two children together. Beautiful, calm and collected Lola Omotayo got what she so much wanted yesterday August 6, 2013, when Peter proposed to her in an unusual and very romantic way with a brand new Range Rover Evoque, bouquet of flowers, a hand written note and a diamond ring. Which woman will not say YES to this? The wedding bells are as loud as the church bells. Peter posted photos of the happy moment on instagram. Congrats to Peter and his lovely girlfriend Lola Omotayo.

The full proposal package The hand written proposal, the flowers and the diamond ring The proposal Range Rover Lola Omotayo displaying her ring

 source:showbiz.com

ORIENTATION, SOCIAL MOBILIZATION AND GUIDANCE IN THE STATE OF OSUN: ISSUES, PERSPECTIVES AND CHALLENGES.

Been a Paper presented at Confluence Beach Hotel, Lokoja Kogi State, by Abosede O' Safety the SSA (Students Mobilization) to State of Osun Government at "A 2 day Zonal Conference on the formulation of a National Policy on Orientation."

 BACKGROUND

The state of Osun which was detached from the old Oyo state is the ancestral home of the Yorubas. It is blessed with mineral, natural and economic potentials for its development and sustainability. A primarily agrarian state with fertile soil for diverse agricultural produce, equally parades sixty-seven tourist sites and monuments that can compete with any society in the world over. Her huge mineral deposits resources of gold, talc, Kaolin, granite, clay and feld spar are eloquent testimonies to her richness.

In spite of her enormous income base and economic potentials, the citizens lived in misery, illiteracy, high level of poverty, mass unemployment, inter-communal crisis, insecurity, infrastructural decayed and developmental challenges. This largely due to misgovernance, maladministration, misappropriation and corruption that pervaded the successive administration, notably, the immediate past administration, between 2003 to 2010.

ISSUES

The people experienced high level poverty and unemployment among other infrastructural challenges while the few that find themselves at the corridor of power used state resources as an instrument of personal hegemony and enrichment; a situation that turned huge number of her youth to political thugs, without the slightest tinge of patriotism.

The prevalent corruption of the immediate past administration in the State of Osun gave birth to the impoverishment of the people, underdevelopment of small scale businesses, promotion of thuggery and political violence, armed robbery, insecurity, internet fraud, laziness, immorality, prostitution, destitution and lack of commitment towards home grown economic development.

PERSPECTIVE     

However, the emergence of the visionary and energetic leader; Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola have cleared the cobweb of these abnormalities in the state and reposition it on the path of masses- driven and oriented developmental programmes as contained in his campaign manifesto document tagged “My Pact with the People of Osun” where he envisioned a six point integral action plans as the basis for Peace, Progress and Prosperity of the State of Osun. These six central points are:

·        Banish Poverty

·        Banish Hunger

·        Banish Unemployment

·        Restore Healthy Living

·        Promote Functional Education, and

·         Enhance Communal Peace and Progress

In implementing these action plans, the Governor inaugurated several agencies as part of his working tools. It was this process that also gave birth to the Directorate for Social Mobilization and Guidance with the mandate of bridging the information gap between the government and the governed.

As it was established to relate with every segment of the populace, to seek their views, gauge their feelings and relate with them for the purpose of sourcing inputs for fine- tuning government policies, programmes’ and projects; especially in relation to its six point integral action plans;

The mandate of DSMG, is to sensitize, educate, mobilize and guide all stakeholders and all social formations, including but not limited to professional organizations, women groups, trade associations, religion groups,  labour organizations, civil society groups, students and youth organizations as well as artisans towards attaining maximum participatory governance for a peaceful, progressive and prosperous state of Osun.

The  objectives include, among other things; to restore confidence and increase popular engagement in governance and social processes; reconcile self- fulfillment with social development; i.e. the prosperity of one is the condition for the prosperity of all; re-embrace knowledge and skill acquisition as central to being human and, to see income from self- application to socially- useful and personally beneficial WORK as most the fulfilling of all rewards.                                       

To achieve this, the DSMG operational methodology, encompasses organizing colloquium; lectures, rallies, workshops, town hall meetings, visitations, documentation, research and social inquires as a strategic means of sourcing inputs from the populace to government policies and programmes.

It is important to note that as we strive to build positive attitudinal change in Nigeria, we must endeavour to make the people the cornerstone of governance. This is one of the factors that has posed serious challenge to  various organizations that have been established to undertake the task of National Orientation from the Ethical Revolution of 1979-1983; War Against Indiscipline, 1984-85; Mass-Mobilization for Social and Economic Recovery, MAMSER, 1985-93 and the now National Orientation Agency, which was established after return to civil rule in 1999.

There is no way any organ with responsibility for mobilizing and orientating people towards positive living and understanding of government policies can succeed without direct input and engagement of such people in the policy formation and implementation.

THE STATE OF OSUN AS AN EXAMPLE

In demonstration of Ogbeni Aregbesola administration’s clear understanding of the importance of behavioural attitude and orientation to human development, one of his very first innovations was the rebranding and value re-orientation agenda aimed at retrieving and restoring to our people the lost virtue of Omoluabi. Other aspects of this re-orientation scheme include the re-introduction of a highly inspirational anthem, flag and State logo with a new motto describing the State of Osun as the Land of the Virtuous.

 Another major stride of the government mobilizing and engaging people in policies formulation and implementation drive is the convocation of an all encompassing Educational Summit, the first of its kind, to draw holistic programmatic action to salvage education in the State. The summit gave birth to many laudable initiatives which form the basis for the administrations action plans in the sector such as supply of free uniforms to all primary and secondary pupils throughout the state, tagged O’Uniform; the school feeding scheme- O’Meal; building of new Model Schools-O’School, distribution of computer tablet (Opon-Imo) equipped with 32 basic subjects for all Senior Secondary School Students in the State, about 60% reduction in fee payable in all state owned tertiary institutions among several others.

Presently, there is significant improvement in the State educational system; the latest report of Federal Bureau of Statistics confirmed that the State of Osun has highest number of Student enrollment in public schools throughout the Federation.

 From the perspective of the administration of Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, job and wealth creation are the antidotes to poverty with a strategy that focuses on increasing the productivity of agriculture and commerce while expanding the absorptive capacity of the civil service. The most far reaching initiative in this is the Osun Youth Employment Scheme - OYES.  It is a response to the relative poverty of youths which provides stipends for labour put in the service of the state government. The scheme operates as a two-year revolving volunteer scheme.

In less than its first 100 days in office, the administration launched its major transformative agenda by employing 20,000 youths under the scheme. The significance of the figure will be appreciated when it is realised that the total number of civil servants in the government’s employment is less than 22,000.The 20,000 youths were distributed to Public Works Brigades, Sanitation Czars, Green Gangs and Osun Sheriffs, Osun Paramedics, Traffic Managers and relief teachers and they are given priority consideration in recruitment to State Civil Service and other agencies of the government at the end of the 2-year scheme. On absorption, the stipend of N10, 000 per month gives way to engagement on the normal salary at grade level of entry. The unabsorbed are then empowered for self-employment.

The exit strategy for those who are not absorbed into the public service is founded upon regular training in various vocational skills and re-orientation in various values, such as industry, perseverance and virtuous conduct. 

The second batch of another 20,000 has resumed February this year as the first batch has completed their two years term.

To revamp the Agriculture sector , the administration convened an all encompassing relevant stakeholders meeting which gave birth to the government policy thrust that drives the sector tagged Osun Rural Enterprise Agricultural Programme, O’REAP.

Also, a similar convergence was held in the tourism sector of the state economy that brings about the establishment of Osun Tourism, O’TOUR, saddled with responsibilities to develop the state tourism potentials to its fullest to promote employment and wealth among people of State of Osun.

This same approach was adopted in establishing the O’CLEAN, where market women, drivers unions, community development associations and other relevant stakeholders converged and resolved to make the dirty nature of the environment a thing of the past. The Urban Renewal Committee was composed of seasoned academics, competent professional and notable community leaders to develop a modern urban outlook for our numerous towns and cities.

Other orientation and mobilisation drive of the administration includes;

·        The periodical organization of Inter-Ministerial exchanges programme, where all categories of workers are exposed to work ethics, value orientation and productivity as well as building synergy between MDAs, career and political appointees for effective service delivery.

·        Quarterly Stakeholder Colloquium on Popular participation in governance and building synergy for development

·        Yearly ministerial retreat as a forum for an end of year performance assessment and next year preview, as well as for Managerial skills training and staff interaction.

·         Weekly outings and visitations, to access every social segment and constituency, briefing them on government initiatives and obtaining feelers for government policy designs and re-designs.

·        Monthly survey/ research and social enquiries exercise to systemically obtain data, gather information, intelligence and reports on societal responses to government policies and projects.

CHALLENGES

·        Opposition’s intolerance: Despite the candour and compassion of the administration of Ogbeni Aregbesola in administering the affairs of the State, the opposition party, precisely, the People Democratic Party, which party controls the Federal Government has been consistently neglecting the basic duties of the government to ensuring a peaceful and prosperous society. A good example of this is the current obstruction of the effort of the government urban renewal initiative in the capital city of Osogbo where they mobilized thugs and erected a huge campaign billboard of President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan at the party campaign office in order to prevent the separation of the perimeter fence from the highway, whereas, the campaign office of the State Governor, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola is equally affected and had been separated. It should be noted that the State Commissioner of Police invited the party leadership and government representatives to a dialogue over this, and a resolution had been agreed upon.  In spite of this amicable resolution, key opposition figures insisted that the President billboard cannot be removed.

·        Political violence: As the gubernatorial election of the state slated for 2014 is fast approaching there is build-up of violence in some areas in the State. Infact, the killing of one Mr Kunle Olagoke, a member of the People Democratic Party at a PDP ward meeting in Ipetumodu at Ife North Local Government Area of the State on Sunday, 23^rd June, 2013 is a confirmed testimony to stoking the embers of violence in the state.

·        Quick money mentality: Despite the government’s stance in massive infrastructural upgrading and development to fast-track economic prosperity of the State, an insignificant section of the citizenry believes that sharing, embezzlement and misappropriation of public funds for personal interest against public good is desirable as it was practised in previous government.

·         Unemployment: There is existence of gross unemployment in the country as successive applicants who are high school graduates could not find jobs. Recently a call for applications for enrollment into the Osun Youth Empowerment Scheme for 20,000 jobs attracted more than 250,000 qualified applicants, of whom four- fifth, were high school graduates.

·        Corruption and Poverty: It is a truism that corruption and poverty is cousins. It is also systemic as a product of socio-economic relations.

BBA: Nigeria Rep Beverly Says She Is Ripe For Marriage

"I am ripe for marriage" - BevRing-a-ding-a-ling can you hear the church bells ring?
Well Beverly sure can hear them. This evening the young Ruby revealed to her fellow Housemates that she plans on getting hitched next year, saying: “I am ripe for marriage”. “But you are too young,” Cleo tried to advise the 21 year old. But that piece of advice seemed to go in the one ear and out the other for the Nigerian. “I am tired of having boyfriend,” she responded.

The fact that the sexy model is not currently engaged and has only recently taken up a relationship with, South African Housemate, Angelo is not going to deter her one bit from her mission either.

When asked by her fellow Housemates what she would do if the South African does not want to tie the knot next year, she replied: “There are lots of other fish in the sea”. Wowzer, this is a lady on a mission!
“If likes it then he should have put a ring on it”. Those are the lyrics to the hit song by Beyoncé and it also seems to the life motto that Beverly is adopting. What do you think; is Beverly serious about this whole marriage business?

culled from codewit.com