Although a little bit of
jealousy is essential for a healthy relationship, extreme jealousy
arises in a relationship because of high levels of insecurity.
If you’re thinking of asking your girlfriend to become your wife,
deciding if you’re ready to make the commitment to marriage is only half
the battle. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life
is someone you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out. Love
alone is not enough to make a marriage work, and certain characteristics
are warning signs for a troubled marriage down the road. Here are some
of the most obvious signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material.
1.
She cuts you off from loved ones
A girlfriend who always becomes sick when it’s time to spend quality
time with your family and even forbids you from hanging out with your
friends will only act worse after you say your vows.
2.
She bails on you when times get tough
Life isn’t always a bowl of cherries, but that doesn’t mean that the
woman in your life should just disappear when the times get tough. If
your girlfriend is not supportive of you emotionally through difficult
times and only stands by you when things are going good, she’s not the
one you should be walking down the aisle with.
3. She displays psychotic behaviors
A woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding and insanity might not
be the best person to swear your undying loyalty to. If she displays
severe psychological problems now, imagine what kind of influence her
crazy and irrational behaviors will have on your future. Marrying a
woman like this will most likely ruin your life and your perception of
women forever.
4.
She’s too clingy
If your girlfriend can’t go anywhere or do anything without you,
calls you twenty times a day and destroys any chance of you missing her
because because the two of you are never apart, she’s going to make a
bad wife.
5.
She has nothing going on for herself
You should want to marry a woman who has goals and brings something
better to your life, not one who is up to her neck in debt, has no
income, displays unpredictable behaviors and has tried numerous,
short-lived career paths yet never knows what she wants in life. This
type of fickle lifestyle could derail your own life plan as well.
6.
She’s controlling
If your girlfriend controls all of your conversations, constantly
forces you into agreeing with her and acts as an overbearing, emotional
bully, it’ll only get worse after you say “I do.”
7.
She’s already cheated on you
Do you honestly believe that a woman is marriage material if she has
been unfaithful to you while you were dating? Yes, a person can always
change and learn from their mistakes; however, a
cheating girlfriend will more than likely continue to be unfaithful after marriage.
8.
Her libido doesn’t match yours
Another sign that she’ll make a bad wife is if her libido differs
wildly from yours. The way you relate to each other in the bedroom has a
big influence on whether the two of you will stay together after
wedding vows are exchanged, so it’s best to work this out before you
walk down the aisle.
9.
She’s extremely jealous
Although a little bit of jealousy is essential for a healthy
relationship, extreme jealousy arises in a relationship because of high
levels of insecurity. If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who
comes near you, refuses to accept that you have female friends and feels
threatened when you discuss your previous relationships, putting a ring
on her finger is not going to make her more secure.
10.
She can’t admit when she’s wrong
If she always seems to have the upper hand in arguments, refuses to
admit her faults or even treat you as an equal, she’s not the marrying
kind.
