There is a huge difference between the guys who get girls on a
consistent basis and the one’s who just can’t seem to get attention
from the opposite s*x no matter how hard they try. If your love life is
on the skids, it’s safe to assume that you are probably guilty of one of
these 5 blunders.
1. You’re too needy
If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it
is to be overly needy, i.e., excessively calling, emailing or sending
text messages early in a relationship, always being available and doing
everything she wants. Furthermore, women are not attracted to the type
of man who needs too much support, validation, and constant
reinforcement.
2. You don’t know how to build attraction
Many men fail in this area because they don’t know how to talk to
women in a way that makes them more interested as time goes on. You need
to learn the trigger points in women, i.e., how they think, react, and
speak. You also have to know how to project your best qualities and use
these to build attraction.
3. You’re looking in the wrong places
Trying to meet women in bars and clubs is a waste of time! Many women
do not like meeting men at bars and have a natural resistance to men
who approach them in these settings. Some of the best places to meet
single women are shopping centers, coffee shops, concerts and gyms.
Women KNOW that guys who are in bars and clubs are looking for one-night
stands, but they don’t expect to be hit on in the above scenarios
(element of surprise).
4. You don’t have confidence
Women are attracted to men with self-confidence, period. Nobody wants
a guy who acts unsure of himself. A sexually confident man who is
secure about his sexuality and is comfortable being who he is will
always attract more women.
5. You’re not persistent
Second to not even trying, giving up too early is the most common
mistake guys make. You may need to get rejected a few dozen times before
you come across a girl that likes you. Remember, meeting women is about
numbers, so continue to go out and meet as many women as possible to
improve your chances.