Distant Relations
It could be as close as a step-sibling, or a cousin by marriage, or an awkwardly young step uncle. But, sharing so many similar experiences as pseudo-family does, you can’t help but feel a special bond with a certain attractive non-blood relative at some point that can leave you both wanting more than a hug.
Boss/Employee Relationship
CEOs are not just antique men, nearly on their deathbed, smoking cigars with their golf buddies these days. Young entrepreneurs and fresh-out-of-college start up founders are everywhere now. You may find your “authority figure” at your new job likes to drink Smirnoff Ice, action movies and have a good weekend in a foreign hotel, just like you do. Oh yeah, and he’s cute too. Similar to family, co-workers endure much of the same stress, share many similar experiences, and overall have a similar lifestyle. This inevitably forms a special bond that can feel like sexual or romantic attraction.
A Taken Man
You’ll tell yourself, you’re not doing anything wrong, because you’re not the one sending him flirty texts, and you haven’t professed any attraction to him, and you certainly haven’t made any physical contact. But, if a taken man is making passes at you and you’re not actively stopping them, you are engaging in some sort of emotional affair.
A Neighbour
Ahh, we are guilty. Simply being exposed to someone repeatedly can play a trick on your mind, making you feel attracted to that person, especially if he is a fine looking dude who just moved into your area. And the fact that your neighbour is just down the hall or street, so accessible when you’re feeling, um, playful, can make this type of taboo love become hot and heavy fast. But your feelings can be confusing: is it proximity or compatibility that’s keeping things together?
Much Older/Much Younger Man
All your friends see it: you’re clearly just a 'plaything' to the gray haired, yacht owning fox, who has been taking you away for luxurious weekends. Or, the barely-out-of-college, hard-bodied cutie you’re partying with is just a toy to you! But, it’s so fun, you’ll lie to yourself and say it’s love for a little while.
The Religiously Committed Man
Have you noticed that pastors are the most attractive, suit strutting guys around? They are no longer bushy haired and dirty clothed, like they used to be. Either his family would disown him should he marry a woman outside their religious beliefs, or keeping up the religious tradition via marriage; the bloodstream is genuinely important to him – more important than being with “the one.” Either way, you’ll engage in a hot fling with a guy who things really can’t go anywhere serious with due to his religious background.
Teacher/Student Relationship
It happens all the time at universities: college professors tend to be a little more liberal by nature than professionals in other lines of work. Add to that, the allure of someone you share intellectual conversations with, and who looks to you as a mentor, and teachers can’t help but be turned on by a student at some time. And which student does not want to be the one chosen by the teacher?
A Friend’s Ex
If your friend dated a guy for a long time, you were inevitably around him often and the two of you got to know each other. Add to that, you and your particular friend are friends, because you have similar values, likes and dislikes. It’s normal, you’d be attracted to the same man.
Lawyer/Client Relationship
A lawyer is almost like a therapist – out of necessity, you tell him every last details of your life. You’ll instantly feel bonded to him for this reason, and should he like the details of your life, he may develop feelings for you. Get a new lawyer, and get it on.
The Renowned Player
Everyone knows he is a player, who doesn’t respect women, and who thinks he is God’s gift to the earth, and so on. Nobody likes him. But you – well, you yearn for him. Why? You just can't explain that you like to feel what it's like to be in his arms for one minute, the forbidden is tempting! And there’s something hot about dating the bad boy.
Your Friend’s Brother
Like the friend's ex, you're around your friend's brother a lot. Odds are, you’ve been privy to some of his most important experiences, valuable moments and intimate secrets, just by proximity, and he to you. And when you get to know someone that well, it’s hard not to fall in love, at least a little.
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