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29/05/2013

Six Signs That You’re In A Wrong Relationship


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Sometimes we hold on to relationships even thought we know that they are bad for us. here are a few signs that you need to say goodbye to that person:
  1. You’re not Happy

This is a great place to start. Someone who is dating the right person consistently enjoys the relationship and feels a general sense of happiness. We’re not saying that they wouldn’t argue or be upset with their partner occasionally; even the healthiest couples do that. And we’re not saying that there wouldn’t be times when a person in a good relationship would get down or struggle emotionally at some point. But generally speaking, a person who is in the right relationship should be happy. So if you find yourself unhappy most of the time – and especially when you’re with your partner – then that’s a fairly clear sign that this may not be the best person for you.

2. You keep your partner’s actions and words a secret


If you can’t tell your family or friends about the many of the things your boyfriend or girlfriend says and does, then you may not be in a healthy loving relationship. If you constantly need to lie to protect him/her then it’s time to get out of that bad relationship.

3. Your partner wants you to change


If your partner doesn’t love you as you are, then it’s time to run!  Of course, this doesn’t apply where they genuinely want you to change certain bad habits for your own good. This is one of the most important signs of bad relationships: a person who doesn’t love or accept you as you are.  Eventually, such a person will begin to compare you with others and will eventually leave you for someone else.

4. Your partner doesn’t trust you


Constant phone calls, demands on your time, and jealous behavior are NOT signs of love! If your partner doesn’t trust you or accuses you of lying, then you need to re-evaluate your love.This is a sign of deep insecurity, which could lead to more serious relationship problems.

5. You disrespect each other


If you don’t respect your partner and there’s no respect coming from their end either, then it’s time to call it quits. Mutual respect is an essential ingredient of successful relationships and if you don’t have that, then it’s just not worth it.

6. Your loved ones are not in support


If the people you trust and are closest to feel that you’re in a very good and healthy relationship, then it’s a good sign that you two may belong together. On the other hand, if the people who love you the most are begging you to get away from someone, then that person’s probably not the one for you
This is definitely not a conclusive list so what do you think people? What are some other signs that you’re with the wrong person? Let us know in the comments box.

28/05/2013

Muslim Lesbian Couple Married In the UK


gayA pair of Pakistani women have made history as the first Muslim lesbian couple to get married in the UK.
Rehana Kausar, 34, and Sobia Kamar, 29, made history when they tied the knot in a register office civil ceremony, then immediately applied for political asylum after they were wed, claiming their lives would be in danger if they returned to their native country.

Watched by their solicitors and two friends, the pair wore traditional white bridal dresses when they were married in Leeds, West Yorkshire.
The pair, from the Lahore and Mirpur regions of Pakistan, said they had received death threats from opponents in Pakistan – where homoséxual acts are illegal and considered against Islam.
And since news of their wedding earlier this month spread, the pair claimed they had even received death threats from the UK.

Before the service, even the registrar advised the couple to give serious thought to their decision to marry because of some Muslims’ views on homoséxuality.
Ms Kausar, a master’s degree holder in economics from Punjab University (pictured), both came to the UK to study business and health care management
Kausar said: ‘This country allows us rights and it’s a very personal decision that we have taken.
‘It’s no one’s business as to what we do with our personal lives.

‘The problem with Pakistan is that everyone believes he is in charge of other people’s lives and can best decide about the morals of others but that’s not the right approach and we are in this state because of our clergy who have hijacked our society which was once a tolerant society and respected individuals’ freedoms.’
The pair married at the register office located at Leeds Town Hall. They have lived in South Yorkshire as a couple for a year
Ms Kamar, speaking to the Birmingham Mail, described her partner as her ‘soul mate’ and said the two women were deeply in love.

Osun Celebrate Oodua World Children's Day in Grand Style




State Government of Osun celebrated Children's Day in grand style as thousands of school children and over 80 eminent traditional rulers from Yoruba speaking states and other parts of the world assembled Osogbo, the capital of the State for the event tagged Oodua World Children's Day.

Governor of the state, Ogbeni. Rauf Aregbesola in his speech, noted that the Children's Day can be traced back to the 1925 'World Conference for the Well-being of Children' in Geneva.
He said the event has since been adopted by most countries of the world as a special day set aside to honour children, to protect them and give them everything it takes to be what they are meant to be in life.

According him, "In Nigeria, Children's Day, as we all know, is held on May 27 every year. It is meant to highlight the rights and needs of children - the need for love, care, affection, protection and nurture.
It is also meant to underscore the right of children to material well-being, to education, to moral guidance and proper value orientation."

"We are determined, that among the various programmes we are executing, education will be the grandest. That is why we have embarked on the most ambitious projects in education."
This year Children's Day was celebrated with children and royalties from Osun, Ekiti, Ondo, Ogun, Oyo, Lagos, Kwara, Kogi, Edo and Delta States of Nigeria; West African countries of Benin, Togo, Ghana and Sierra Leone; South American countries of Brazil, Argentina and Colombia; Cuba; Caribbean; and the United States attended the event in Osogbo."

Aregbesola said he was of the conviction that the realization of the socio-cultural and economic integration of the Yoruba race can be greatly enhanced by imparting that vision into children because such a cultural renaissance agenda cannot succeed without including children.
"The Yoruba cultural integration can only be meaningful if the children, who would carry on the culture, are properly socialized into it. We can begin right from here, the cradle of the Yoruba race; to plant the seed that may germinate into something that will in time surpass the wildest dream of the brains behind the idea."

Also speaking on the occasion, the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi, described Children's Day as a unique event that needs to be continued for the progress of Yoruba nation. He noted that the traditional rulers of Yorubaland in Nigeria and the Diaspora have once again come together to forge a united front for the progress of
the entire black race.

Alaafin, who was with the Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuade, in a single outing for the first in many years, said the Yoruba people, wherever they are, need to come together for the benefit of the race.
Pigeons were released as a symbol of unity among Yoruba rulers wherever they are across the globe.

This Picture Shows The Real Reason Why PDP Suspended Amaechi (SEE)





The picture above shows Governor Rotimi Amaechi of "PDP" (3rd right) and Governors Oshiomole, Fayemi and Amosun of "APC". We leave you to draw the conclusions yourself

27/05/2013

Ekiti ACN: Brother Against Brother


The rising wave of complaints among some members of the ruling Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) in Ekiti State in recent times has become a cause for concern among the citizenry. Assistant Editor, Sam Nwaoko, reports.

The rumours that all has not been well within the ACN in Ekiti State had begun like a whimper. No one took it serious until witnesses were bold enough to complain aloud. As of today, the entire ACN in Ekiti State is wedged into two major blocs: Those who are for the governor, Dr. John Kayode Fayemi (JKF) and loyalists of Honourable Michael Opeyemi Bamidele, popularly known as MOB. The bone of contention is the 2014 governorship, an issue which has so far remained in the realm of speculations.

It actually began as figments. Then, it got its own life and today, that which was termed ‘unimaginable’ has seemingly taken root in Ekiti State and has been festering. When politicians cry out over attacks by some people, the handy culprit is usually members of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) but at the moment in Ekiti State, that is no longer the case. The ruling Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) is the issue and a number of citizens of the state have voiced their concern as the 2014 governorship election in the state approaches.

Some concerned Ekiti citizens, who expressed their disappointment in the growing intra-party attacks in the state, complained that if this could be happening when the election is still about one year away, they wondered what the situation would look like when the actual ‘fight’ for the position got underway. The peoples’ concern is not for nothing. Up till Wednesday this week, members of the party continued to lament their thorough manhandling by some other members of the party in the state because they have a question mark on their loyalty to certain power blocs in the party in the state.

MOB, many believe, is serious warming up to give JKF a fight for the ticket of the party to contest the 2014 governorship, and this has polarised members of the party across the state. The sustained speculation on the intentions of the two major forces in the party has pitted their followers against one another, and the result is the attacks on one another.

Bamidele is the member representing Ekiti Central Federal Constituency in the House of Representatives. His constituency is made up of Ado Ekiti and Irepodun/Ifelodun local government areas of the state. However, Bamidele, according to those who are in the know, had launched himself into the politics of the state with a wider view to clinching the governorship seat. In the last general election, he had campaigned for the Ekiti Central senatorial district’s seat and looked set to emerge as the winner until the ticket was won by Mr. Babafemi Ojudu, who is currently the senator representing the zone in National Assembly.

He is said to have loyalists across the state, with many of them forming part of the government of Dr. Fayemi when the ACN took over the reins of power from the PDP in October 2010 when the PDP was ousted in a judicial pronouncement. Today, the picture has changed from what it was, as those perceived to be loyalists of Bamidele have been sent packing from the state government and are allegedly being haunted everywhere they are found in the state. This contention is given life by several accounts of ACN members who had been fingered in the reported intra-ACN skirmishes in parts of the state.

For instance, when the traditional ruler of Iyin-Ekiti, a major town in Irepodun/Ifelodun council area of the state, Oba (Justice retd) Ademola Ajakaye, celebrated his 75th birthday recently, there were accusations and counter accusations between pro-JKF and pro-MOB members of the party on who were the culprits in reported brawls at the ceremony. Also, an account given by the secretary of Ekiti West Local Government Area of an incident that took place in Okemesi-Ekiti recently gave the ‘we against them’ scenario in the community. In another incident that occurred in Igede-Ekiti this April, the scenario painted was also that of MOB versus JKF, just as the Tuesday’s brutalisation of yet another member of the party in Ado Ekiti, the state capital.

A statement issued by the Publicity Secretary of the ACN in Ekiti State, Mr. Tunde Adeleke, made the above contentions more compelling, even as it gave a hint that all was not well within the party and among its various groups. The ACN in the statement, on the one hand, maintained that it was a peace-loving party devoid of the reported incidents of attacks among its membership while, on the other, it blamed MOB for the incidences.

The ACN said “We found Mr. Opeyemi’s comments in the dailies very unfortunate if it is true that he actually made such allegations against his own party. For the avoidance of doubt, no ACN member attacked Opeyemi Bamidele, as our investigation within the party has revealed that the fracas was caused by the group of rough necks that usually follow him everywhere he goes in the state.”

The statement signed by Adeleke entitled: “Opeyemi Bamidele was not attacked by ACN members” and made available to newsmen on April 17 said: “We would like to remind Hon Opeyemi that it was this group of boys that he sent to disrupt the 75 thbirthday anniversary of his town’s Monarch, Oba Ajakaye, the Oluyin of Iyin Ekiti, few days ago, while he conspicuously stayed away from the remarkable event. Mr. Bamidele’s boys have also been going about Ekiti causing trouble and harassing other party members. We wish to reiterate again that the ACN has always toed the path of peace even before it reclaimed its lost mandate, and it has continued on that path.

Rather than going about with impressionable young party boys to cause trouble, we advise Mr. Bamidele to start playing the role of a true representative of members his constituency who had written many letters of complaint against him, having abandoned them since his election in April 2011.”

However, the matter, according to some observers of events in the state, is as a result of lack of effective opposition from the PDP in the state. A political stakeholder in the state said: “The PDP is lame and at best, has not been able to fire from all cylinders, or does not know how to, just as the ACN did when the PDP was in power.” The source added that “this is why the ACN has turned to itself to look for sparring partners within its fold.” But these have their effect as the polity nears the 2014 governorship.

Source: Tribune

Meet Nigeria's Representatives In Big Brother Africa Season 8 (The Chase)


Beverly

BEVERLY



Bio

Beverly is a model from Lagos. She describes herself as “smart, sexy, humble, loyal and crazy”. One of her favourite qualities is her sense of humour. In other people, she values “consistency, cleanliness, truth and humility” and dislikes unkept promises, lies and pretence.

Beverley says that viewers can expect “a total packaged African young diva to command the right qualities and characteristics of a blunt, sexy go-getter”. She doesn’t really have any role models, choosing rather to take unique attributes from different people. Asked who has influenced her life most, Beverley says “who I want to influence me all depends on the situation at hand”.

Her favourite musicians include John Legend, Kelly Rowland, Phenom and Rihanna. 
Melvin

MELVIN

Bio

Melvin is a model and actor from Delta State with a BSc in Chemistry. Melvin enjoys listening to Nicki Minaj, Rick Ross and R Kelly.

His favourite place in Nigeria is Lagos and he says the best things about the continent as a whole are the culture and people. Outside of Nigeria, he enjoys spending time in South Africa and the USA because “these are places where you can relax and relate to people conveniently”.

His friends and family inspired him to enter Big Brother. He has always been a fan of the show and has previously come out tops in two other reality shows. He is hoping to use all his experience and charm to go all the way on Big Brother. If he wins the grand prize, he’ll invest it, but he’s also hoping to make his country proud and use this experience as a platform to achieve other things in his career.

Source:bigbrotherafrica.dstv.com

24/05/2013

Barack Obama is gay – Dave Daubenmire, Right Wing critic

Barack Obama

President Barack Obama’s historic embrace of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights has prompted many critics to come forward.
But one right-wing source is going even further, implying in a bizarre rant that Obama himself is gay and should “come out of the closet,” Right Wing Watch is reporting.

In a News With Views broadcast, “Coach” Dave Daubenmire asks, “How about he come out and admit he’s the first openly gay president or, better yet, openly bisexual president?”
He goes on to note that Obama’s “face seems to really light up when he begins to talk about the gay agenda.”

It isn’t the first time the president has been slapped with allegations he is secretly gay. Gossip columnist turned Tea Party author Jerome Corsi made similar claims about Obama last fall, alleging that the president was actively involved in Chicago’s gay bar and bathhouse scene.
“Obama used to go to the gay bars during the week, most often on Wednesday, and they said he was very much into older white guys,” Corsi said at the time.

Daubenmire has lashed out at Obama in the last. In a Nov. 1 Op-Ed published days before the U.S. presidential election, he referred to the president as “political toast” who was “going to be thrown out on his nose.”

source:ynaija.com